Posts Tagged ‘self-love’

Respect yourself at all times. When you respect yourself, you know how to respect others and you help all of us to Ascend to a higher human paradigm. Right now, humanity is outgrowing the profane disrespect that created such a painful way of life. We are instead remembering sacred respect for all, which is your natural state.

Respect includes being highly valued, honored, supported, celebrated, cherished, appreciated, trusted, included, free and healthy. Treat yourself with respect always and interact with those who also live with respect. Disrespect includes being devalued, betrayed, abandoned, shamed, insulted, controlled, distrusted, excluded and unhealthy. Disrespect is disempowerment whereas respect is loving empowerment. It can be helpful to ask yourself regularly, “Is what I’m doing respectful to myself and to everyone else too? Am I coming from a place of being wounded or honored?” 

Here are my personal, hard-earned tips on how to embody respect and how to handle disrespect. You may want to post these in your room at the holidays. Remember to treat yourself and others as holy, especially during the “holy days”:

  • Feel the highest respect and loving bliss for all life, and with this feeling, create your own Heaven-on-Earth from the inside out. This is how you/we Ascend. 
  • Go direct to GodSource always. Feel sacred God within sacred you. 
  • Feel genuine, detached compassion for all people, and especially for those who are emotionally wounded/disrespected, just as you were too. Actively heal your wounding and leave others to heal theirs.
  • Engage with people at a very high level. It’s best not to get deeply involved with those who aren’t spiritually awake, nor with those who do not own their healing. Think of them as “Sleeping Beauties” for now.   
  • Never compromise yourself for anyone or anything. No excuses. Respect your body and yourself with the utmost honor at all times. 
  • Understand that you don’t have to look good to others in any way—just be your uniquely beautiful self. There is no need to defend or explain yourself to anyone, and no need to try to prove that you are right. Just be. 
  • If you truly feel wrong then take your lessons with humility and give respect to those who helped you learn them.   
  • Own your thoughts and your energy. Don’t give your attention, time or resources to anything that disrespects you or anyone else. Think about what you want to experience, not what you don’t. 
  • If you find yourself replaying painful past experiences in your head, focus on the lessons you learned, take these lessons to heart and discard the experiences that have taught you. Replace each painful memory with its invaluable lesson. And please know that your depths of despair are leading to heights of greatest joy!
  • Your words are powerful. Speak with harmonious and loving words. Refrain from talking about anyone or anything in a non-compassionate or disrespectful way. Avoid acting with passive aggression—communicating how you really feel in cryptic, powerless ways. 
  • Avoid those who are living with victim-consciousness, who blame the external for their problems and then disrespect others. They may use you to feel better about themselves and then turn around and blame you for their pain. This only perpetuates injustice, so get out of the way.  
  • If anyone tries to disrespect you, stay away from them and leave them be. Do not fight with them. Engaging in negativity distracts you from your essential spiritual work on earth. If you feel emotionally upset, go immediately to a place where you can be alone to face your own healing. Love yourself in your most difficult moments—this is spiritual gold! And your healing helps all humans.
  • Concerning those you find yourself around who have disrespected you in the past, who are not healing:  don’t allow them to transfer their wounding onto you by making you feel bad. In short, don’t let them make you feel bad! Feel SO GOOD about yourself instead, and lead with self-love. Remember to be honored, not wounded, which is what these people are teaching you. Interact with them only in public or group settings where you have allies with you, and act with formal politeness, without drama. Act from a new and higher place instead of rehashing things in an old, lower way. If politeness becomes impossible, then wish them well and excuse yourself. You deserve to feel safe and to be honored at all times.  
  • If it bothers you that people who try to disrespect you don’t like you, please understand two things: 1. These people do not like themselves. 2. You are already infinitely, spiritually loved.  
  • Never try to please others, which comes from insecurity, and certainly don’t try to please and appease those who disrespect you.

Lastly, don’t be a good little robot who follows others, but rather, be a beacon of love who champions respect. Refrain from feeding into division and taking sides. Love with all your heart instead and let the rest go. Let suffering, struggle and survival go. Let competition, insecurity, and infighting fall away. Stay far away from the corrupt old system that taught us to be wounded females and males who fight for resources, and most of all, to fight for love. You are already LOVED, cherished, respected and adored in our gorgeous universe, and all you have to do now is respect yourself. Lead on, shining friend. You’ve got this.  

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Hello beautiful souls on earth! Here are some key practices that are helping with human Ascension right now:

Open Your Heart Each emotional heartbreak is a heart-opening for you to open yourself wide to the love that is already within you and then radiate that love out to humanity. You can feel deep emotions that come to you for the purpose of heart-opening, but you do not have to carry emotional pain. So while you may wish to cry, grieve, and celebrate as you feel called for the sake of expansion, do so without getting caught in suffering. Let your heart expand and then release the rest. 

Outgrow and Keep Growing Allow yourself to outgrow the old and grow with the new. You may notice how much you’ve outgrown old, painful experiences and that harmony and love feel most authentic to you. This requires feeling worthy, and Self-Love shows you how. Prioritize divine Self-Love that cares for all life from the inside out.

Feel Gratitude Instead of Victim Consciousness If you start to feel woe-is-me energy, choose instead to enjoy what you love in the present moment, with gratitude. Feel how expansive and solid gratitude is now, more than ever. You can uplift yourself and our entire world instead of getting stuck in victim consciousness. Make the best of things and then see how utterly precious this whole experience is!

Stop the Fight Within and Without Do not fight anything, just let it go. Most of all, do not fight emotional pain. Please understand that pain does not care about you, and this can feel unjust, but trying to get pain to care about you by fighting it is futile, so leave it be. You can outgrow being a venue for anything that sabotages you and stop participating in it. You can choose not to react and engage with others who carry pain, and instead, take the higher, beautiful path. Others will be inspired by you.

Unifying Soul Instead of Separate Personality Get out of personality and dive into your soul. Be who you really are—a being of unifying LOVE. Step into unity and stay there. All pain comes from forgetting unity. Joy returns when you remember.

Choose Not to Stay in Conspiracy Theory While it can be important to understand just how toxic your world has been so that you can heal, conspiracy theory can keep you stuck in a holding pattern of lower density. It is most important to hold the higher, Angelic light that you brought into this world. In short, stop complaining and start creating with unconditional love. 

Believe in Benevolence Believe in miracles and outcomes beyond your wildest dreams! Dream big and don’t ever stop. What you believe becomes your reality, so believe in your personal divine plan and your incredible ability to be a powerful creator of harmony. Embrace your job to be an oasis of joy. Hold higher light and blissful love on earth.   

Breathe Bliss Breathe in bliss, summoning bliss from within your being. Then breathe bliss out and offer this sacred gift of love to the world. Feel the harmonious flow of life that is available to you at every moment with every breath. The exquisite feelings available now are truly gorgeous.  

Physical Exercise Your physical body is your sacred Ascension vehicle. Exercise is so helpful. If you like to walk or hike and are approaching a big hill, picture yourself unpacking your burdens as you climb. Envision that you are taking off your worries and fears so that you are much lighter at the top. Let go of every single thing that weighs you down and be light. 

Get Your Body in the Water Bathing helps to hydrate, cleanse and heal. Bathing in sunlight is a true gift. Swimming in Nature is a dream come true.

Thrive Instead of Survive Say goodbye to survival mode and welcome “thrival” mode instead—your natural state. Rise from the ashes of pain as the reincarnation of LOVE, and soar wildly with your heart wide open! Make your life a waking dream of bliss as you so deserve, and light the starry way for all of us.  

I LOVE YOU INFINITELY ~ Suzanne at ShareTheSpiritual.com

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On this day and every single day, give yourself the gift you already have. Give yourself the love that is already waiting in you—love that is boundless and never ends. You don’t have to wait for this love. It is already here. It is within you, wrapped and ready to be opened. This love is what truly completes you, not another person.

The biggest misperception about romantic love is that someone else can complete you. They can’t. Only you can complete yourself. That is why romantic partnerships really thrive when both people love themselves. And that is why romantic love starts with you.

Romantic love asks you to understand just how incredibly loved you really are in our universe. It also asks you to understand just how much love you already embody. This love is infinite, and it is simply waiting to burst forth! Because love is who you actually are at the soul level. Love is your true identity.

I’m not talking about love as most humans know it. I’m talking about total jaw-dropping, ecstasy-inducing bliss! Romantic relationships give you a taste of this love—exquisitely so. But this love is actually a reflection of yourself. It is a reflection of the bliss that waits in all of us, wanting to pop open. Wanting to positively gush!

Love cannot be found externally. It is always within each of us. Love is always within you. It is simply asking to be found.

But how do you find this love and never lose it again? My new guide shows you how. It gives you the gift of yourself. But why can it be so hard to love yourself? I explain the real reason in my guide. I give you the information and techniques to help you fully understand that you are infinitely loved by the universe, despite appearances! You are cherished and adored, and always will be. Because you are infinite love incarnate, and you are here to finally be your true self.

Get the Guide:  You Are Infinitely Loved; The Self-Love Guide     for $4.99 

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I love you. I love you so completely. I adore you infinitely and forever. I want you to know that you are never alone in your life, and that I am here with you always. I understand you through everything, no matter what. And I admire how you are living your experiences on earth.

I will always support you, without question, even if others cannot. I am always on your side, and I know that things haven’t been easy. I know how deeply you feel in your life and how challenging your challenges have been. They have pushed you to the edge of what you can handle, but handle them you have with courage and perseverance. It is time to applaud yourself for this!

For you have met every difficulty and acted accordingly. You have seized the experiences you wished to have, and you have played them out perfectly. No one could have done a better job.

Your life has been absolutely perfect. And it has brought you to this moment of precious reckoning. It has led you to the greatest experience you will ever know. And that is to finally love yourself, deeply and without question, and to never forget this again.

Now I know that the world makes this difficult. I know how easily things can make you seem “not good enough.” But somewhere within, you know that this is not real and that you are so incredibly special. Deep down you fully believe in yourself.

You came here to remember this with conviction and to overcome anything telling you otherwise. You came here to heal the pain in you that cries out, and in that healing, rediscover yourself. You are here to love yourself, above all else, and in that remembering grow forever empowered!

You see, you are so very powerful, and you’ve got the universe on your side, even if it doesn’t look like it. You are infinitely loved and infinitely cherished, beyond what humanness can comprehend. If only you knew just how admired you are for your bravery and how much you actually belong. You are so deeply beautiful and wise beyond your dreams! Indeed, you are royalty from the spiritual realms.

I know all of this with the utmost certainty because I am you and always have been. You and I are one and the same, and we are more immense than you can imagine! We simply came to this earth to gain invaluable experience and to grow ever stronger with love.

At the end of the day, all that matters is love. It is all that remains of our earthly ordeals and relationships. Love is what we are made of and what interconnects us all. Love is our inherent oneness.

There is nothing that separates any of us ever. We are all one, and always have been. We are one soul, one light, one being shining and immaculate. We are one divinity, sacred and invincible, making itself incarnate. We are one benevolent power – one God gazing into the mirror of life and finding infinite love.

This is the love that always shines within you, and it radiates when you remember who you are. This is the love that illuminates the world when you finally love yourself – completely and with all of your soul!




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Each of us is extraordinary and unique. Each of us was made to be different from everyone else. We were born to shine our original talents upon the world.

You bring a radiant light all your own that is essential to our human experience. We need you, and now is the time.

I believe that we are sparks of God, created as divinely perfect, and yet we are born to ever evolve. We are of God, and are connected to each other as one, and yet we are meant to shine as individuals. And we do a pretty amazing job navigating through this most difficult school – this human journey that is a dramatic chance to shine brighter. In fact, you are so incredibly brave to be here.

We are here to mature in responsibility and to become caretakers of life. We are learning from our tremendous challenges, but these lives are not who we are. They are simply obstacles designed to help us grow higher, but they are not our identity. So let go of these identifications, for it is like taking a test and letting the test define you. When these brief, challenging lives of duality have been lived, the perspectives gained and the brave spirits we learn them with will be what remain. As will the radiant, one-of-a-kind and ever-growing soul of you.

Oscar Wilde famously said, “Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.” Let us not compare or imitate, or aspire to be anyone other than who we are at the core. Let us celebrate originality and lead ourselves strongly with our own intuitive power. Be true to yourself! Be true to the authentic and steadfast you that resonates from within. This true self is meant to be in charge of your life rather than the ego.

The ego wants you to win with rules that bind your spirit. It will try to convince you to emulate homogeneous ranks, but your true you wants to shine the spectacular light that is your birthright.

Author Mary Lane illuminates so beautifully that we often lessen our greatness in front of others. She says, “I have dimmed my fire all my life so I would be accepted.” She reminds me that I intrinsically belong here in my unique-ness, not in spite of it. She cheers me on, saying, “Allow your fire to burn brightly” and with no apologies! I am envisioning a glorious world where we each shine in this way.

At the end of this human journey, you will be the one who evaluates your life, so make it what you want it to be. Believe in yourself, and others will too! And embrace your invaluable worth. The universe has been trying to tell you how amazing you are your whole life. Know this as you steer steadily towards your dreams and what you came here to do.

Listen to what your heart truly desires so that you can follow your unique path and no one else’s – so that you can build an inspired reality all your own that creates each day with authenticity. This means focusing on how things feel from your soul instead of how they might look to others. It means purging anything you have taken on that isn’t you. So be pure in yourself and let your life sing out with integrity.

Love the sacred spark of God you are and watch your spirit soar! If you only knew just how much you are loved in God’s universe – it is beyond what one can fathom on this earthly journey. Let your heart illuminate our world with this love that transforms. Own your vital light and help our collective cause – our rising consciousness. Your shining soul is on this human road of metamorphosis, finding its way to flourish beneath the stars. Shine on bright soul! Shine on.

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