Last week, I explored how shifting beliefs can help to actualize what we wish for. More and more, I am remembering that having this opportunity to change from within is exactly why we’re here on earth.
You see, human drama creates a choice environment to shift at the soul level. The challenges that we experience push us to tap into our unfathomable reservoirs of love and put them into action. We grow ever stronger in this way. And we choose our lives with heartfelt desire for this growth.
In his groundbreaking book Your Soul’s Plan, Robert Schwartz illustrates the soul’s desire so beautifully. He points out something that is revolutionary – as humans we learn through opposition.
We come here hoping to strengthen certain qualities of love from within, and so we are purposefully treated in a manner that is the opposite of these qualities. By being challenged externally and denied love on the outside, we experience breakthroughs that assert love on the inside.
For example, when someone is surrounded by compassion, they know it in an external way, but not necessarily in themselves (even though it is there waiting). If they experience circumstances that challenge them to feel compassion for another person, then they truly know what it is in action, and they can carry this knowledge with them always. Thus, opposition is a tool used to experience love in all of its forms.
This is how we design our lives. We help each other by playing out roles that teach love. And often, these come in the form of negative relationships.
We agree to do this for one another with tremendous compassion and bravery because we want to help champion the love within ourselves. Again and again, we are learning to believe in ourselves by embracing the divine love within.
It took me a long time to see this in my own life, but in overcoming my challenges of self worth and belonging, I am experiencing a shift in belief about myself. I am building inner strength and I am remembering why I chose to live this life – so that I might grow in ways I could not in heaven. I wanted to go through specific experiences firsthand so that I could live through the varied aspects of love, including what love is not. I wanted to have a clean slate of amnesia so that my consciousness would not interfere with my lessons, until I was ready to remember.
Now, I am waking up to what I came here to learn and to the truth of our divinity, and it feels blissful beyond measure. You see, the spiritual journey unfolds with a knowing smile shared with every human who walks the earth, every being in the universe, and with God. Each awakening builds awareness of our undeniable unity as one, and the immeasurable, unshakable love that we are. This is who we have always been, and we are simply waiting to remember ourselves.
I find the hardest thing to remember is the reason that I chose to come into this human experience. I work each day through prayer and meditation to stay in the place of remembering my chosen path. It is easy for we human beings to stray from our chosen path. We are side tracked by the diversion of this human experience.
Thank you James for your wonderful insight and sharing. I agree it is so easy for us to forget why we came here. Perhaps that will change as we continue to evolve? I feel that it will in my heart.
Thanks for the reminder that opposition and challenge really does push us to grow Spiritually. I am reminded of something I once read; that coral grows only on the side of the reef that faces the ocean. It must have the pounding of the waves and the threats of danger in order to thrive. So must the Spirit be willing to take chances for the opportunity of growth. Thanks for another insightful Blog.
What a beautiful, insightful analogy Hawk. Thank you for showing us a new way to look at life. It reminds me of your blog about False Paradise – that we must be out in the adventurous sea in order to thrive, not on the safe shore.
Thanks for the insight. Sometimes it is hard to believe that we would put ourselves in certain situations but I guess it is pushing us to grow and expand.
I feel that way too Diana – sometimes it is hard to believe that we would. I think we’re all incredibly brave to be here.
Thank you for sharing here.
Suzy
These words must be shared!
Thank you for your beautiful writing. Is there a way to contact you directly that I am not seeing on your blogsite?
Thank you. My email is
suz@hogans.info
Suzy