You are perfect. You are a magnificent soul briefly living out a human experience. If you love yourself unconditionally, you will see this. Your spiritual perfection will become blatantly obvious.
You don’t need to be fixed. There is never anything “wrong” with you because you are simply here to grow. Your human struggles will never define your gorgeous spirit. They are allowing you to expand with love.
We are here as humans to help each other grow, not to fix each other. We are here to hold each others’ hands through challenges instead of judging them. When we judge, we undermine the reasons we came here. When we try to fix another’s problems, we defeat their life goals.
Trying to fix people comes from a place of judgment. It imposes our own beliefs onto this fellow human. And this judgment reflects the growth we want for ourselves. Even healers attract their own issues in their patients. Every teacher is a student, and every student is a teacher. We attract what our souls want to learn.
Every problem that you attract in your life is something inside of you that is asking for more love. So the next time you find yourself wanting to fix a friend’s problems, look at your own issues first. See that if you grow through your own pain, theirs won’t bother you at all. You will be able to stand by your friend instead of keeping them from pivotal growth. And you will be amazed by their courage.
We have been taught to fix each other because we’ve been taught that we need to be fixed. We have been told to believe that we will never be enough, and so we live disempowered. But you are perfect inside, magnificent friend, and you don’t ever need to be fixed. You are powerful and courageous, and you have come here to grow with love. You have come here to bring your spiritual perfection to this human experience and transform our sacred earth.
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We are all so perfect. We must make room in our awareness for the perfection. This is just perfect Suzy!
Thank you! It’s an honor to have you here : )
This is a good follow up to the previous ” Open Your Heart” blog because it reminds us how difficult it is to love unconditionally. How many times have I tried to “fix” my loved ones and hope that they will take my advice and change to whatever notion I have of them. Who am I to judge others and cast that stone? Accepting the fact that none of us are perfect is the hardest thing of all. But, perhaps, believing that perfection is possible will help us to achieve that profound goal and,also, help us love unconditionally those who need it most.
Oh haven’t we all done that! I find it so much easier when I realize that human perfection is not the goal. It’s not what this mortal experience is about. However, we already embody spiritual perfection, and so does everyone on this planet. We simply have to remember this.
Thanks so much for being here : )
Fixed? There has never been anything to be fixed just accepted. Nothing to be judged just observed.
When we in all of our humanness see something to be “fixed” maybe at that time pause and look in a mirror.
LOVE is the way!
Look into the mirror – the mirror of life that reflects your inner world. Look into that mirror with LOVE, and your world comes alive with beauty.
Thank you James for your invaluable insight on the blog!
Thank you, Thank you, and Thank you. It took me over half my life to realize this Suzy. You mention we been told to believe that we will never be enough. I discovered it was me who told me that. When we accept ourselves the way we are, we can accept others the way they are. I’m learning to observe my life like James said and it unfolding beautifully like nature. Did I say thank you?
Hi, Vernon. Great to have you here. The gratitude you feel is for the truth within yourself, and you have so much to teach us about truth! Wow, “it was me who told me that.” Amazing revelation, and I know it so well! Let’s keep observing just like James says. Many thanks : ) Suzy
When others try to fix you throughout Life, it’s easy to wonder if you aren’t really broken. You have given a lesson I truly need to learn, that perhaps I truly don’t need to be fixed.
You sure don’t! Self-doubt gives way to self-love. It is the human journey. Pretty genius actually. Pretty damn hard to undergo! : )